"A foolish man may be known by six things: Anger without cause, speech without profit, change without progress, inquiry without object, putting trust in a stranger, and mistaking foes for friends." - Arabian proverb I'm a fool.
Oh my, I wish you would stop being so hard on yourself.
If someone makes you feel this way then they are not worth it. You're better than this! I wish I could make you see that and just be "laa dee daa" and carefree about all this, but I can't.. things take time to get over. We all make mistakes in life and it's the hardest to look back and analyze them at times, because some things may makes us feel utterly helpless and stupid. Though, we have to take things at face value and not overanalyze the what ifs or you're just going to prolong your recovery time. We learn from them, as I'm sure you have now, and we move along to better and happier things in life, iA. The more you think it about the more your anger will build up, so let it go.
There's an American proverb we use here in the US I like a lot and sums up what I'm trying to say: "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me."
P.S. Don't hate RVA because of this! However, I think you do need your travel therapy haha :)
Oh my, I wish you would stop being so hard on yourself.
ReplyDeleteIf someone makes you feel this way then they are not worth it. You're better than this! I wish I could make you see that and just be "laa dee daa" and carefree about all this, but I can't.. things take time to get over. We all make mistakes in life and it's the hardest to look back and analyze them at times, because some things may makes us feel utterly helpless and stupid. Though, we have to take things at face value and not overanalyze the what ifs or you're just going to prolong your recovery time. We learn from them, as I'm sure you have now, and we move along to better and happier things in life, iA. The more you think it about the more your anger will build up, so let it go.
There's an American proverb we use here in the US I like a lot and sums up what I'm trying to say: "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me."
P.S. Don't hate RVA because of this! However, I think you do need your travel therapy haha :)
You're no fool. I hope everything works out ok for you so that you're worry-free. Hakuna Matata :)
ReplyDeleteLimah: Thanks, yeah it takes time and I gotta learn - I'll be leaving RVA soon
ReplyDeleteAnisah - Hankuna Matata!